If you are unable to have children you should not feel like it is the end of happiness. Even for those that get counseling for this it is hard to accept. Then come those occasions where everyone turns up with their children and somehow you seem to stand out from the crowd and it begins to trouble you again.
For really inspirational and uplifting words on how you can cope with your situation you could look up any of these: words of encouragement quotes for encouragement encouragement scriptures
The first thing that I will say to you is that in every condition there is always hope but to find hope you must first accept the fact you are facing , that you might not be able to have children of your own . It should be something that you can talk about freely and there is no reason why should blame yourself really. So stop beating yourself about it and using it as yard stick to measure and judge yourself by.
In most cases you find that your spouse is the one that has problem with you not being able to have children and makes it hard for you to accept. Obviously such a situation is not easy for the both of you because he has to understand how you feel and at the same time you must put yourself in his shoes and understand how he feels.
Having been in the same situation myself I will tell you that this is one situation that has no clearly defined way of being dealt with. It calls for patience and understanding by both you and your spouse. If you are ever going to talk about this subject try avoiding the house set up or environment. Try somewhere where the both of you will be able to relax and feel at ease.
you can access sites that offer words of encouragement and possibly link you with other people in a similat situation. They have helped me cope with my own situation and I’m sure they will work for you too.
